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		<title>By: Verity</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-673</link>
		<dc:creator>Verity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 17:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoops... I can&#039;t believe he is only 6. Hmmm... now I am totally intrigued about who the character is going to be. And please don&#039;t hesitate to comment about your story in my blog, I think I do it quite a lot in yours (oops sorry). And I asked you anyway :). And I think it is interesting to compare storylines sometimes as well as  writing techniques and issues that one has to deal with writing these sort of stories.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoops&#8230; I can&#8217;t believe he is only 6. Hmmm&#8230; now I am totally intrigued about who the character is going to be. And please don&#8217;t hesitate to comment about your story in my blog, I think I do it quite a lot in yours (oops sorry). And I asked you anyway <img src='http://www.mhalwae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . And I think it is interesting to compare storylines sometimes as well as  writing techniques and issues that one has to deal with writing these sort of stories.</p>
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		<title>By: Lothere</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-672</link>
		<dc:creator>Lothere</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2007 21:06:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I forgot about poor Daeglan.  He has some developmental and/or personality problems, but I have been neglecting that family so terribly the last few years.  So much so that you think he&#039;s close to a teen! :-D  He &amp; his sister just turned 6 in August.

I plan on doing more with Daeg later, though, and hope I can do it convincingly.  Eeps.  Now that I know Cearbhaill is reading...

I don&#039;t really count Malo as handicapped in my mind, but I guess he is.  He is quite good at communicating through gestures by now after a thousand years working at it, but he can still only truly make himself understood for abstract or complicated things through writing.  And most people don&#039;t know how to read in the 11th century, so he&#039;s perhaps more handicapped than a mute man would be nowadays.

I will be doing more with Malo soon, and I would bet that finding myself confronted with the practical difficulties of writing a chapter about a man who can&#039;t talk will quickly change my perception of him into his being somewhat handicapped indeed.

The character I meant is not entirely new, but close...

Sorry for filling your blog with comments about my own story... :oops:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I forgot about poor Daeglan.  He has some developmental and/or personality problems, but I have been neglecting that family so terribly the last few years.  So much so that you think he&#8217;s close to a teen! <img src='http://www.mhalwae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />   He &amp; his sister just turned 6 in August.</p>
<p>I plan on doing more with Daeg later, though, and hope I can do it convincingly.  Eeps.  Now that I know Cearbhaill is reading&#8230;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t really count Malo as handicapped in my mind, but I guess he is.  He is quite good at communicating through gestures by now after a thousand years working at it, but he can still only truly make himself understood for abstract or complicated things through writing.  And most people don&#8217;t know how to read in the 11th century, so he&#8217;s perhaps more handicapped than a mute man would be nowadays.</p>
<p>I will be doing more with Malo soon, and I would bet that finding myself confronted with the practical difficulties of writing a chapter about a man who can&#8217;t talk will quickly change my perception of him into his being somewhat handicapped indeed.</p>
<p>The character I meant is not entirely new, but close&#8230;</p>
<p>Sorry for filling your blog with comments about my own story&#8230; <img src='http://www.mhalwae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_redface.gif' alt=':oops:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Verity</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-671</link>
		<dc:creator>Verity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2007 19:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is a very sensitive topic to write about disabilities so I hope I do okay with Gena. It is hard to write something that you can&#039;t comprehend but I still want to try. And I guess you can sort of try and get a feeling for what its like, as Cearbhaill said with her orientation and mobility classes, trying to do various things with a blindfold on, or just trying to take away that sense and concentrate on the others for a while. But it is something that I could never truly understand so at times it is hard to write and I run the risk of offending someone, which I hope I never do.

I guess I end up sticking to what I know in the end though because I constantly am worrying that my characters start to converge into one person that is probably me :) So I am always trying to think about who different people react to various situation and not do my reaction or an extremely cliched stereotypical reaction.

I am wondering if this somewhat-handicapped character is one we have already met Lothere... or is it a completely new character.  Malo? or maybe Estrid and Brede&#039;s son, ack I can&#039;t remember his name. I wonder how things are going with them actually. Those kids must be almost teenagers now.

And I&#039;ll check out that book Cearbhaill, it sounds interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is a very sensitive topic to write about disabilities so I hope I do okay with Gena. It is hard to write something that you can&#8217;t comprehend but I still want to try. And I guess you can sort of try and get a feeling for what its like, as Cearbhaill said with her orientation and mobility classes, trying to do various things with a blindfold on, or just trying to take away that sense and concentrate on the others for a while. But it is something that I could never truly understand so at times it is hard to write and I run the risk of offending someone, which I hope I never do.</p>
<p>I guess I end up sticking to what I know in the end though because I constantly am worrying that my characters start to converge into one person that is probably me <img src='http://www.mhalwae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  So I am always trying to think about who different people react to various situation and not do my reaction or an extremely cliched stereotypical reaction.</p>
<p>I am wondering if this somewhat-handicapped character is one we have already met Lothere&#8230; or is it a completely new character.  Malo? or maybe Estrid and Brede&#8217;s son, ack I can&#8217;t remember his name. I wonder how things are going with them actually. Those kids must be almost teenagers now.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;ll check out that book Cearbhaill, it sounds interesting.</p>
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		<title>By: Cearbhaill</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-670</link>
		<dc:creator>Cearbhaill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Sep 2007 03:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, my BF is blind. BUT he&#039;s not totally blind, he does have a small amount of vision. What he has is degenerative so he eventually will be totally blind though. Gena and Noah&#039;s relationship is very genuine and loving.

I think part of the problem for corporations is that while the technology is there to make most jobs accessible to people who are visually impaired it is extremely expensive. It is therefore much easier (read: cheaper) to hire someone who is not. My mother&#039;s reaction when she first heard that the BF was blind was not very kind. She basically thought I&#039;d end up being the main breadwinner and housekeeper. It&#039;s not true though. My BF cooks, I don&#039;t. He cleans, does his own laundry, is gainfully employed. I&#039;m the one without a real full time job. I love how you handle Gena. She has her insecurities, which everyone does, but she is very capable and works very hard.

Lothere, I can definitely understand your reluctance to write about disabilities. The one thing I think writers have in their favor is that in general, no two people with the same disability have the same experience. I&#039;ve worked with people who are visually impaired, hearing impaired, autistic, physically impaired, emotionally impaired and on down the list. Each person is different, and  each handle life in a different way. But ultimately, when you&#039;re writing you need to stick to what you&#039;re comfortable with.

Oh and Verity, if you&#039;re interested in Helen Keller, there&#039;s this awesome new book called Miss Spitfire: Reaching Helen Keller by Sarah Miller. It is about Annie Sullivan, who was also visually impaired.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, my BF is blind. BUT he&#8217;s not totally blind, he does have a small amount of vision. What he has is degenerative so he eventually will be totally blind though. Gena and Noah&#8217;s relationship is very genuine and loving.</p>
<p>I think part of the problem for corporations is that while the technology is there to make most jobs accessible to people who are visually impaired it is extremely expensive. It is therefore much easier (read: cheaper) to hire someone who is not. My mother&#8217;s reaction when she first heard that the BF was blind was not very kind. She basically thought I&#8217;d end up being the main breadwinner and housekeeper. It&#8217;s not true though. My BF cooks, I don&#8217;t. He cleans, does his own laundry, is gainfully employed. I&#8217;m the one without a real full time job. I love how you handle Gena. She has her insecurities, which everyone does, but she is very capable and works very hard.</p>
<p>Lothere, I can definitely understand your reluctance to write about disabilities. The one thing I think writers have in their favor is that in general, no two people with the same disability have the same experience. I&#8217;ve worked with people who are visually impaired, hearing impaired, autistic, physically impaired, emotionally impaired and on down the list. Each person is different, and  each handle life in a different way. But ultimately, when you&#8217;re writing you need to stick to what you&#8217;re comfortable with.</p>
<p>Oh and Verity, if you&#8217;re interested in Helen Keller, there&#8217;s this awesome new book called Miss Spitfire: Reaching Helen Keller by Sarah Miller. It is about Annie Sullivan, who was also visually impaired.</p>
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		<title>By: Lothere</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-669</link>
		<dc:creator>Lothere</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Sep 2007 00:52:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cheated with my blind character (Kiv, back in the day) and made him have superhuman other senses.  As he said, he could run to the lakeshore despite being blind.  Honestly, the topics of disabilities is one of those I&#039;m afraid to touch, because someone with some experience is going to come along and know I got it all wrong, or did it too shallow-ly.  I tend to stick to what I know, which a writer is supposed to do anyway, I guess.

I do have another somewhat-handicapped character coming up, but once again....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cheated with my blind character (Kiv, back in the day) and made him have superhuman other senses.  As he said, he could run to the lakeshore despite being blind.  Honestly, the topics of disabilities is one of those I&#8217;m afraid to touch, because someone with some experience is going to come along and know I got it all wrong, or did it too shallow-ly.  I tend to stick to what I know, which a writer is supposed to do anyway, I guess.</p>
<p>I do have another somewhat-handicapped character coming up, but once again&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Verity</title>
		<link>http://www.mhalwae.com/2007/06/23/gena-senses-are-filled/#comment-668</link>
		<dc:creator>Verity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Sep 2007 14:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your boyf is blind? I am really flattered that you think I write Gena and Noah&#039;s relationship well. I try to make it seem realistic but I don&#039;t have any experience with that so I wasn&#039;t sure how well it would come out.

I think you are very right about people just seeing someone&#039;s disability and not thinking about the actual person. I can&#039;t believe that 70% of visually impaired people in the US are unemployed! That is terrible! I don&#039;t understand why it should be like that, there is no reason they can&#039;t do lots of jobs perfectly well if the companies would just be more accommodating. This has been something I have been trying to explore with Gena, the fact that people assume that she can&#039;t do anything and she is just a burden. When really she works just as hard and can handle most things just as well as everyone else.

I love your comments so don&#039;t feel like a comment whore. There is nothing better than to open up my website and see a whole lot of new comments :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your boyf is blind? I am really flattered that you think I write Gena and Noah&#8217;s relationship well. I try to make it seem realistic but I don&#8217;t have any experience with that so I wasn&#8217;t sure how well it would come out.</p>
<p>I think you are very right about people just seeing someone&#8217;s disability and not thinking about the actual person. I can&#8217;t believe that 70% of visually impaired people in the US are unemployed! That is terrible! I don&#8217;t understand why it should be like that, there is no reason they can&#8217;t do lots of jobs perfectly well if the companies would just be more accommodating. This has been something I have been trying to explore with Gena, the fact that people assume that she can&#8217;t do anything and she is just a burden. When really she works just as hard and can handle most things just as well as everyone else.</p>
<p>I love your comments so don&#8217;t feel like a comment whore. There is nothing better than to open up my website and see a whole lot of new comments <img src='http://www.mhalwae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cearbhaill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cearbhaill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 06:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was interesting. I also had to learn to read Braille by sight. Though attitudes toward the blind have come a long way, I think to many they&#039;re still looked at as a burden. Something like 70% of people with severe visual impairments are unemployed in the US alone. When people find out that my BF is legally blind they suddenly look at me like I&#039;m Mother Theresa. Oftentimes all people see is the blindness and not the person behind it. I&#039;d say Gena is lucky no matter what time period you put her in.

(And now that I feel like a total comment whore I&#039;m going to go catch up on what I&#039;ve missed over in Lothere.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was interesting. I also had to learn to read Braille by sight. Though attitudes toward the blind have come a long way, I think to many they&#8217;re still looked at as a burden. Something like 70% of people with severe visual impairments are unemployed in the US alone. When people find out that my BF is legally blind they suddenly look at me like I&#8217;m Mother Theresa. Oftentimes all people see is the blindness and not the person behind it. I&#8217;d say Gena is lucky no matter what time period you put her in.</p>
<p>(And now that I feel like a total comment whore I&#8217;m going to go catch up on what I&#8217;ve missed over in Lothere.)</p>
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		<title>By: Verity</title>
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		<dc:creator>Verity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 20:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That must have been a really interesting class to take. I am always amazed by how well people do when they are blind or deaf. The fact that deaf people can learn to speak amazes me. And when you think about Helen Keller... she was blind and deaf! And she could speak a bit just from feeling the way people held their throats when they were talking. That is just so phenomenal.

I&#039;m really glad Gena has Noah. She is really lucky in that time (well I guess not so lucky since I made her and I can decide whether she has a nice husband or not). But back in those days she would just be seen as a burden on society. Poor girl.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That must have been a really interesting class to take. I am always amazed by how well people do when they are blind or deaf. The fact that deaf people can learn to speak amazes me. And when you think about Helen Keller&#8230; she was blind and deaf! And she could speak a bit just from feeling the way people held their throats when they were talking. That is just so phenomenal.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m really glad Gena has Noah. She is really lucky in that time (well I guess not so lucky since I made her and I can decide whether she has a nice husband or not). But back in those days she would just be seen as a burden on society. Poor girl.</p>
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		<title>By: Cearbhaill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cearbhaill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 02:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Verity, you do an excellent job with Noah and Gena. It&#039;s amazing how well the senses can take in when sight can&#039;t be relied on. I never realized it fully until I was taking an Orientation and Mobility class during my undergrad (I&#039;m certified to teach the Visually Impaired). We were blindfolded at various times to learn techniques and it was a real eye opener (pardon the cliched pun). Noah is perfect with her. He&#039;s not overbearing, but he gives her the info she needs. If you were to bring him out into the real world people would call him a saint for being with Gena.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Verity, you do an excellent job with Noah and Gena. It&#8217;s amazing how well the senses can take in when sight can&#8217;t be relied on. I never realized it fully until I was taking an Orientation and Mobility class during my undergrad (I&#8217;m certified to teach the Visually Impaired). We were blindfolded at various times to learn techniques and it was a real eye opener (pardon the cliched pun). Noah is perfect with her. He&#8217;s not overbearing, but he gives her the info she needs. If you were to bring him out into the real world people would call him a saint for being with Gena.</p>
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		<title>By: Aithne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aithne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2007 22:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Noah and Gena are so perfect it&#039;s kind of hard to imagine them without each other. They&#039;re so in love and happy and trustful. ^^</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Noah and Gena are so perfect it&#8217;s kind of hard to imagine them without each other. They&#8217;re so in love and happy and trustful. ^^</p>
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